This was at a time when I was testing out subtle desire expressions. I didn’t know how powerful they could be and I overused them. Both of these girls started showing so strong signs of attachment, that the commitment felt overwhelming for me, and I ended up canceling the first dates.

Takeaway: Only use when you are genuinly interested and the desire is real. And use sparingly. We are not here to manipulate, where are here to build attraction and meaningful connections.