The 8 Worst vs. Strongest Ways to Open a Convo
★★★★★ "Eye opening" / Alex
★★★★★ "A deliberate piece of work " / G.
★★★★★ "Eye opening" / Alex ★★★★★ "A deliberate piece of work " / G.
“Please stop with these 8 type openers”
1. trying to rizz ↑
Having googled “best rizz lines” and copy-pasting something cheesy.
2. “Mr. Nice” ↓
“How’s your day been?” I get 20 of those a day, and they drain my dopamine.
3. “Mr. bean” 🥴
The really weird sarcastic inside joke that I don’t even know how to interpret.
4. Mr. “hi :)” 🥱
*Incredible tension. Can’t wait for what’s coming next*
5. Mr generic-compliment
“You have beautiful eyes.” Makes me feel soooo special.
6. “the novel 📖”
Writing a long-ass opener that super-high effort to respond to. Like I need to take a sabbatical year to come up with enough research to reply.
7. “mr horny 🐴”
Going on Tinder when you are horny and subtly writing something sexual, straight in the opener. With 0 build.
8. “mr wtf 🥸”
Trying really hard to come up with something unique to the point that not even yourself know what it means.
“the strongest openers in 2025”
1. The open loop
Having googled “best rizz lines” and copy-pasting something cheesy.
2. the stimulating
“How’s your day been?” I get 20 of those a day, and they drain my dopamine.
3. the exclusive
The really weird sarcastic inside joke that I don’t even know how to interpret.
4. the light-hearted
The really weird sarcastic inside joke that I don’t even know how to interpret.
The Greatest opener of all time
The Greatest opener of all time
The no 1 greatest opener of all time
The no. 1 greatest opener of all time uses ALL of the above ingredients in the very first sentences. It’s called the S.P.E.C.I.A.L frameworks and it’s a hell of an emotional cocktail.
Pure dopamine. Showing genuine interest. Lighthearted. Short & Sweet. Hit’s deep.
S - Social / Self Image
P - positive emotion
E - Exclusive
C - Context relevant
i - Irresistible
a - advances
l - Linked
See it in broken down and view real-life examples in 48 Wet Words.
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